The Owners

Shirley Lytle, M. Div, LMHC, CSAT

Licensed Mental Health Counseling and Co-owner of Living with purpose counseling, Inc.  Shirley has a Master in divinity with an emphasis in counseling and family.  Supporting clients struggling with transition, anxiety, depression and relationship challenges for the past 30 years.


  • 15 years experience as a Senior Banking Auditor
  • Relationship expert and author
  • Certified Sex Addiction Therapist
  • 3rd level Gottman counselor

"Spend more time being the best you can be and less time trying to be an imitation of someone else."


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Set Me Straight Shirley Podcast

Darryl Lytle

Relationship coach helping individuals on being good with who they now while working on becoming a better version of themselves.  Coached 100’s of couples with a focus on men for over 25 years. Encouraging and insightful while challenging individual self growth.


  • 25+ years of Sales and Marketing Experience for Fortune 500 companies
  • Conducted multiple Marriage Conferences with attendances over 300 people.
  • Married 38 years- and Happy about it!

"It is what it is, what are you going to do about it?"


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Man Chat Monday Podcast

We can help you with your marriage because we know the difficulties you face.